Being single, you realize so many things. Some good and some bad. Me, myself have found myself the last couple years...wow that is shocking to think about. I have come to realize that I do not NEED someone in my life and when that time is suppose to happen, it will. I do not push it, I do not look for it... I focus on my daughter and I.
Most of my friends are dating or are married. I hear so many things, drama..issues.. call it what you want. This is something I do not miss, nor do I want. I realize that relationships have their normal bickerments but TRUST is a must. If you do not trust who you are with, it will never work out. EVER. I wish some of my friensd would figure this out. How is it possible to love someone if you do not trust them? (it's not).
For friendships, sometimes your friends let you down. More than likely often, but you still love them. Sometimes you tell them and sometimes you don't - depends on the situation. Sometimes they apologize and sometimes they don't. Maybe they are just flakes...
Anyone else have any thoughts?
My 2 cents :)
ReplyDeleteI found myself in the same type of situation. I didn't like drama and I still don't. Trust is the biggest part in any relationship. Me and Amy have our arguments about things but it's normal. What happens afterwards is where the true challenge is. We always talk about what divided us and we go from there. We were raised differently so we don't always see eye to eye on things but its good for us because we strengthen each others weaknesses.
See the thing is, people nowadays think that relationships should be looked for. So they go out and try to make it happen instead of letting it happen. Everyone is so caught up on looks and status that great people slip thru their fingers. I believe there is not just that one person ( like a soulmate) for us. I believe we can make it work with anyone and have just about the same great life with someone else. BUT we pick who we pick becuz of how they make us feel, their involvement in our lives and the commitment they give to us on a daily. Those people are the ones that we like to keep close becuz we can always depend on them for comfort etc. The best relationships come from great friendships. Amy and I were friends for 2 yrs before we even started liking each other... we just never noticed eachother like that til one day it was clear that we had a thing for each other.
So to make this short lol.... Keep your head up because flaky people won't ever be as close to you as the committed ones will. Both types will let you down for sure but in the end it's the committed ones that stick thru the tough times and that will always be there. Keep those ones around. You never know, a relationship could blossom and you'll end up having someone love you and Emry the rest of your life!
Marc
:). That was an excellent response!
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